Elegant wedding invitations: 7 keys to paper, type & etiquette

An elegant invitation signals style and care from the very first touchpoint. These 7 keys help you define materials, typography and etiquette while staying consistent with your wedding.

1) Paper & finishes

• 100% cotton or premium cover (300–600 gsm).
• Finishes: letterpress, foil, embossing, varnish/thermo.
• Extras: liners, wax seal, silk ribbon, painted edges.

2) Typography & hierarchy

• Pair of fonts (serif + restrained script) with consistent sizes.
• Prioritize names/date/venue and mind line spacing.

3) Palette & concept

A neutral palette with a single accent nearly always works. Draw inspiration from your venue (estate, church) or your decor.

4) Wording & etiquette

• Who’s hosting, full names, date/time and venues.
• Dress code, registry and kids policy (if any).
• RSVP with deadline and contact. Complement with a digital version.

5) Envelopes & mailing

• Envelope with liner and wax seal for a classic touch.
• Legible addressing; avoid excessive abbreviations.

6) Send timing

• Save the date: 4–6 months (local) / 6–10 months (destination).
• Invitation: 8–10 weeks prior.
• Reminder: 2–3 weeks before.

7) Common mistakes

• Overusing hard-to-read scripts.
• Skipping a map or key instructions.
• Sending late and squeezing RSVP time.

Quick checklist

• Chosen paper/finishes
• Typography and palette
• Wording and etiquette reviewed
• Send calendar and RSVP